Loyalty isn’t necessarily all too complex as an idea and yet, it still manages to confuse so many people especially in the role that it plays in relationships.

People, in general, have got to develop their infantile understandings of what it really means to be loyal to someone. Loyalty isn’t exactly going to have the exciting flare that comes with passion. It doesn’t have the raw intensity that comes with intimacy and affection.

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But loyalty is still something that no healthy relationship could possibly ever live without. It’s one of the essentials of really being able to sustain a relationship for the long term.

Of course, throughout the course of a relationship, the romance is going to have its fair share of lulls.

But here are 6 sings that your partner isn’t loyal to you even though they don’t cheat on you.

  1. They make you feel like less of a person.

They constantly demean and undermine you. They never make you feel like they respect you. They don’t support you or give you boosts whenever you’re feeling down. They don’t put much effort into making you feel good about yourself.

2. They don’t really like to talk much about the future.

If they’re uncomfortable with talking about a future with you. Then it’s likely it’s because they don’t see a future with you in the first place and that’s because they don’t plan on staying loyal to you.

3. They’ve cheated in previous relationship in the past and there hasn’t been any closure.

Just because they cheated in previous relationships doesn’t mean they’re going to cheat on you as well. But they at least have to own up to their faults. If they haven’t then maybe they just have loyalty and commitment issues in general.

4. They act as if they’re doing you a favor by staying in a relationship with you. They make you feel like you’re a problem and a chore. They make you feel like you’re a burden who isn’t really worthy of their love.

5. They still play the flirting game with other people. It doesn’t matter what their intentions are. It doesn’t matter that they weren’t really planning on acting on their flirtatious advances. It doesn’t matter that they only saw it as innocent flirtation. It’s still flirting. And it show a blatant disregard for your feelings and for your relationship.

6. They undersell the significance of your relationship. They don’t really make you feel like they give a damn about the love that you have for one another. They don’t make it seem like they’re happy about being in a relationship with you.


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